I am not a family oriented person, at all. I  have never understood how one can keep in touch with family on such a constant basis. I love Daylan's mom but I have never understood how he could call her every other day on his way to work. It boggled my mind that Tom never cut the apron strings with his family. In fact, he is going to be 28 and is still living with his parents. He only lived away from them for two years of his entire life; one was spent married to me and one was with him in basic training and whatnot. After the separation, he moved back in with his parents. He is now re-married and the new wife is living with them as well.

My dad has been emailing me every few days regarding this move and it's torture to me. We have already discussed the issue. It's like beating a dead horse with a stick thinking the horse will get up. I already know the game plan and I wish he would leave it alone. He also keeps drilling into me that I need to work out my issues with my mother. Him going on and on and on about it isn't making me want to run into my mother's arms and patch things up with her any faster.

The thing is, he is now sending me more emails because I stopped responding to them. How many times can I answer the same questions? I went six months without talking to them and I was completely fine with it. I hope they don't think that just because I am moving back means I am going to talk to them every day.